My point was that it would not make a difference in your feeling of life if you now have a girl per month (as when you go back to China) in stead of 6 months (as when you are in the states).
The prospect of having more women may be something nice to have, but making it sound like the number one factor in determining whether one should go back to China just does not look logical to me.
There is really no right or wrong here in terms whether people should go back to China or stay in the West. I myself is trying to make my way back to China, but that does not make it the best choice of life for everybody else.
