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作者：emperorfan 在 海归酒吧 发贴, 来自【海归网】 http://www.haiguinet.com
你的个人能力，期望值，和资源，
如果不和谐，就自我挣扎紧话，
摘段趣文：
Americans don’t really know how to do nothing. This is the cause of that great sad American stereotype—the overstressed executive who goes on vacation, but who cannot relax.
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“Oh, no!” he said. “We are the masters of bel far niente.”
This is a sweet expression. Bel far niente means “the beauty of doing nothing.” ....Italians have traditionally always been hard workers, ... But even against that backdrop of
hard work, bel far niente has always been a cherished Italian ideal. The beauty of doing nothing
is the goal of all your work, the final accomplishment for which you are most highly congratulated.
The more exquisitely and delightfully you can do nothing, the higher your life’s
achievement. You don’t necessarily need to be rich in order to experience this, either. There’s
another wonderful Italian expression: l’arte d’arrangiarsi—the art of making something out of
nothing. The art of turning a few simple ingredients into a feast, or a few gathered friends into
a festival. Anyone with a talent for happiness can do this, not only the rich.
For me, though, a major obstacle in my pursuit of pleasure was my ingrained sense of
Puritan guilt. Do I really deserve this pleasure? This is very American, too—the insecurity
about whether we have earned our happiness. ...
作者：emperorfan 在 海归酒吧 发贴, 来自【海归网】 http://www.haiguinet.com
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