“相貌中上，一定要合眼。身材适中。(相对我的身高来说)。“ Sure! but you yourself shall be at least 相貌中上 as well, unless you are extremely talented/successful career wise or bloody rich!!（貌不够，钱来凑 ）海拔嘛，似呼较高为好，to improve your kids DNA. (if you are relatively small in size);
"有一份能养活他自己的工作" This requirement 含金量太低！ Besides at least he shall be able to financially surport himself and the kid(s), he shall have the fiscal potentials to take care of you when needed!
"性格老实" This is the biggest 误区！！！Generally speaking "性格老实"的人 has very limited potentials.... 同义词———— 土头土脑
(if you are relatively small in size);
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